Pulls out a gun - he took the soul?

The tragedy in the Moscow school where armed grader shot and killed two people - teachers and police and forced to shudder all over the country. Unfortunately, rifle or pistol as an argument increasingly featured in disputes not only adults but also children.

There is no weapon relatives

This is the opinion the chief center of licensing and permitting work AMIA Russia's Murmansk region Vyacheslav Zaitsev. Hunting rifle or a pistol with rubber bullets intended for self-defense, it does not matter. Weapons must be stored in a box of high-strength material, and access to it may be only the owner. Father "Moscow hand" seems to have forgotten about this simple rule. His forgetfulness cost the lives of two people.

Affecting its senselessness and bloodthirsty murders of recent years are increasingly committed not skinheads' brother, as usual Tikhonov. Is access to guns and pistols can get anyone?

- Not exactly, - says Vyacheslav V.. - For the legal acquisition of weapons requires a license, which is issued, in particular, our center. After the purchase of weapons, it is registered in the Department of the Interior, the owner granted permission to keep and bear.

To obtain a license a person must prove that he has no medical contraindications to the possession and use of weapons. The list of contraindications - poor eyesight and prolonged mental disorders. The future owner of weapons must not be registered psychiatrists and drug addiction. And all other contra-no! To obtain a driver's license and that more doctors need to get around.

The safe under lock and key

Lawful weapons can not fall into the hands of citizens who have outstanding conviction. However, "Unwind time" for crimes of small or moderate in three years can get a pistol or rifle. Permission to bear arms can get and murderers, they just have to wait a little longer after his release. People who have two or more administrative violations of public order, the license to be seen.

- To obtain a weapons permit must be trained - says Vyacheslav Zaitsev. - The course is very small - 6-8 hours. It includes the basic legislation, medical and fire training.

Terms weapons storage check precinct. As practice shows, some owners in the gun safe hidden just before the visit of the police. Apparently, they do calculations on reasonable relatives, and about the law immediately after checking forget.

Moscow tragedy made parents wary of Murmansk students. Despite the shocking events in the capital, in the Murmansk schools gain access mode is not expected.

- Murmansk police on a scheduled basis within the framework of anti-terrorist measures are constantly instructs all with private security companies on the topic of security of educational institutions - said Deputy Chief of Police for the protection of public order, Ministry of Internal Affairs of Russia in the city of Murmansk Nicholas Minka. - The territory of schools, gymnasiums and lyceums inspected patrols. Particular attention is drawn to the long-parked cars. All schools are equipped with a panic button. A time when the school was guarded grandmother technicals, is long gone. Cause for concern in the parents should not be.

Give vent to feelings

- I have as much heart sank when I saw his hand gun - with open eyes in horror tells girlfriend. She witnessed road showdown. One driver "clipped" the other. First grabbed the weapon. - We traveled by car, traffic was very difficult. Then in general they all stood up. Heard gunshots and then saw a man with a gun. His head was only one thought: who will remain daughter if they kill us.

Fortunately, the enraged driver fired rubber bullets in a situation no one was hurt. But there were times when the consequences of this fire becomes much sadder.

- Firearms limited lesions, as well as hunting, requires obtaining licenses and permits for storage, - the head of the center licensing and permitting work. - His mission - to self-defense. That's just not always used it for protection.

Its availability corrupts owners. How not to buy a gun to defend themselves from criminals suddenly have? A unbalanced psyche and increased aggression - not a psychiatrist diagnosed. So, no contraindications. But here's anger at his neighbor, inept or arrogant driver is. Pulled out a gun, released the clip, and immediately felt better!

Affects and society's attitude towards this type of weapon. It is believed that they should not kill, so toy-straschalka. In fact, there were even cases of death from wounds received by rubber bullets.

- Aggression - a normal human reaction to stimuli, - said the expert psychological center "Here and Now" Ruslan Tsepov. - Another thing, when it is not adequate to current events. Grab the gun when you are being attacked, is justified. But rudeness seller or rudeness on the road can hardly serve as a motivation for the use of weapons.

Psychologists believe: the fault is the emotional explosion suppression of these same emotions. In our society is not accepted to give his feelings. In public, it is necessary to keep the brand. But holding back emotions, we do not get rid of them, and laying the bomb.

- Have you noticed that most "unjustly" begin to shoot at people men? - Says Ruslan. - Women in our society tears and cries of farewell. They are able to be discharged. But from the stronger sex weaknesses nobody expects. From an early age in boys brought masculinity. They can not cry, they must be strong and endure all.

However, the beautiful half of humanity, too, once relax: it is necessary to meet the standards of a caring wife, a good mother. All must find time for yourself no time left. Irritation, fatigue piling up over the years, the trigger for their exit can serve any household trifle. Of course, nobody calls sharply respond to rudeness, hysterical on every occasion, but also to accumulate unrealized need not be. Get rid of them can be quite peacefully.

Punching bag as an antidepressant

- Do not forget about yourself, about your needs - advises psychologist. - There are at least an hour a day for yourself to relax better, of course, actively. But if you can not, you should at least read a book or watch TV. Accumulated anger can vent, such as on a pillow. Men - on the punching bag. Free from negativity help tears put into reliable "vest". Also helps to cry. But do not mince words wholeheartedly better somewhere in the woods, away from people.

Particular attention is paid to psychologists so-called low-key children. Often, parents begin to deprive the baby diapers since childhood. Solving their psychological problems, realizing their desires, they record the child in all sections, and mugs. Adults are afraid that their children will not be successful. This mother wanted to become a famous dancer, but could not, so now terrorizes daughter. A failed footballer dad pushes his son in training. In this case, the child desires rarely taken into account. Between sports clubs, language courses, music schools and other attributes of success in children do not have time for any game, any communication with adults. They have no right to be bad, because they invested so much manpower and resources! With such a burden of responsibilities is not any adult can handle, not to mention the children!


- With your child should make friends - explains Ruslan Tsepov. - Find out what he lives, his interests, together you can determine the range of activities that will bring him joy, and not wear down. Well, currently we should not forget, you have more to listen to their desires. Learn to understand yourself, people will be able to resist the surrounding negativity. But the use of weapons will only exacerbate the situation, but did not resolve.